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What Therapy Offers That Time Alone Cannot

By: Vivien Kalvaria There’s a long-standing myth in trauma-affected families that “time heals.” But untreated trauma doesn’t dissipate—it embeds itself in body language, tone, and relational patterns. Therapy challenges that myth. It doesn’t erase history, but it creates space to name it, process it, and break its compulsive repetition. In my experience writing My Name Is Not Rifka, I came to understand how critical therapeutic intervention can be—not just for survivors, but for those raised in their psychological wake. Telling Rifka’s story forced me to confront my own anger, confusion, and pain. Why had she tried to sabotage my marriage […]

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Ep. 73- Getting Under the Skin: Journey from Estrangement to Forgiveness with Vivian Kalvaria

Listen to this powerful episode with Vivien Kalvaria as we discuss her memoir, My Name is not Rifka. In this chat, we discuss silence, intergenerational trauma, the banality of evil, forgiveness and reconciliation.

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