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What Therapy Offers That Time Alone Cannot

By: Vivien Kalvaria There’s a long-standing myth in trauma-affected families that “time heals.” But untreated trauma doesn’t dissipate—it embeds itself in body language, tone, and relational patterns. Therapy challenges that myth. It doesn’t erase history, but it creates space to name it, process it, and break its compulsive repetition. In my experience writing My Name Is Not Rifka, I came to understand how critical therapeutic intervention can be—not just for survivors, but for those raised in their psychological wake. Telling Rifka’s story forced me to confront my own anger, confusion, and pain. Why had she tried to sabotage my marriage […]

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Why it’s so challenging to love ourselves!

We are all born beautiful and perfect little babies. Full of unconditional love and compassion as well as joy and curiosity about our world and our fellow human beings. Unfortunately we have learned a lot of messaging that has taken us away from our inherent feelings of love, compassion, joy and abundance. Thus, the journey back to loving ourselves is about unlearning. Many of us, were born to human beings who may have had insecure, or disorganized attachments to their parental figures. They may have been taught conditional love. For those of you who do not know what conditional love

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